Dear Erasmus Diary... - entry 2

Thankful for Erasmus: A Life Transformed

This is the story of a simple girl who once doubted herself, scared and unsure about stepping out of her comfort zone for an Erasmus experience.

"I’m losing 10 months of my life."

"It’s better to stay and work."

*"I’m too old for this." (At 22!)

"It won’t help me with anything."

"What if I don’t integrate?"

These thoughts echoed in my mind before making the leap. But today, when I think about myself, I see my life divided into two parts: before Erasmus and after Erasmus.

Before Erasmus, I thought my life was everything I could ask for. I had a job in my dream field, a close-knit circle of friends to share fun moments with, a university degree almost within reach, and the comfort of being near my family. On the surface, everything felt just right.

But on September 8, 2023, everything changed. I packed two suitcases and flew to the other side of Europe. That single decision shifted my world. It was the day I began to see life through new eyes.

Since that day, I met incredible people from all around the world who became like family to me. Together, we shared unforgettable moments—we traveled, danced, sang, laughed, and sometimes even cried. The bond we created is something only those who’ve experienced Erasmus can truly understand. These friends, from diverse cultures and backgrounds, made me feel at home even when I was far away.

Erasmus gave me the courage to truly explore who I am. Along the way, it surprised me with something I never saw coming: love. Over 3,539 kilometers away from where I started, I didn’t just find a new place to call home—I found someone who felt like home, too.

Looking back, I am proud of the courage it took to leave everything behind and embrace a new life for 10 months. The fears that once seemed overwhelming now feel insignificant compared to the personal growth I’ve experienced. I realized that true friendships are not defined by distance; if being far apart causes them to fade, they were never genuine to begin with. Instead, distance should strengthen those bonds and make you cherish their presence even more. I also learned that life doesn’t happen within the safety of your comfort zone; the greatest growth comes from stepping into the unknown, no matter how challenging it may seem.

Reflecting on my Erasmus journey, I’m thankful for the incredible people I met who filled my days with joy, laughter, and unforgettable memories. I’m thankful for the moments when I could proudly share my culture and traditions with people from all corners of the world. I’m thankful for the courage that allowed me to break free from my comfort zone and embark on an adventure that transformed me. I’m thankful for every experience, big or small, that taught me more about myself and the world around me.

Erasmus wasn’t just an academic exchange for me; it was a transformative experience. It gave me a new lens through which to view the world and a chance to rediscover myself.

If you’re hesitant about taking the leap, like I once was, remember this: the hardest steps often lead to the most beautiful destinations.

Author: Maria Lambru